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Child Developmental milestones

I care for a 2 year old girl who, when I first met her had no verbal skills at all, and very few sounds...in the last few weeks she has started to make more sounds and yesterday said Hi..and continues to say it lol.Today she said ohoh when she dropped a toy...so I started to research the developmental milestones that 'experts' think a child should reach by a certain age... Just my opinion but as far as I'm concerned a 2 yr old should have some words.. I found this little test

How Do I Know If My Child Is Reaching the Milestones?

Here is a checklist that you can follow to determine if your child's speech and language skills are developing on schedule. You should talk to your child's doctor about anything that is checked "no."


  • 2 - 3 years Yes No
  • Knows about 50 words at 24 months.  
  • Knows some spatial concepts such as "in," "on."  
  • Knows pronouns such as "you," "me," "her."  
  • Knows descriptive words such as "big," "happy."  
  • Says around 40 words at 24 months.  
  • Speech is becoming more accurate but may still leaveoff ending sounds. Strangers may not be able to understand much of what is said.  
  • Answers simple questions.  
  • Begins to use more pronouns such as "you," "I."  
  • Speaks in two to three word phrases.  
  • Uses question inflection to ask for something (e.g., "My ball?").  
  • Begins to use plurals such as "shoes" or "socks" and regular past tense verbs such as "jumped."

Now my little friend 'knows'  and understands what I say to her..I think she is a smart, happy and loveable little girl..but I'm concerned about her lack of speech, but dont feel comfortable asking the grandmother or mother what they are doing for her..Going by the following paragraph I dont think she is even up to the year.

How do speech and language normally develop?

The most intensive period of speech and language development for humans is during the first three years of life, a period when the brain is developing and maturing. These skills appear to develop best in a world that is rich with sounds, sights, and consistent exposure to the speech and language of others.

There is increasing evidence suggesting that there are "critical periods" for speech and language development in infants and young children. This means that the developing brain is best able to absorb a language, any language, during this period. The ability to learn a language will be more difficult, and perhaps less efficient or effective, if these critical periods are allowed to pass without early exposure to a language. The beginning signs of communication occur during the first few days of life when an infant learns that a cry will bring food, comfort, and companionship. The newborn also begins to recognize important sounds in his or her environment. The sound of a parent or voice can be one important sound. As they grow, infants begin to sort out the speech sounds (phonemes) or building blocks that compose the words of their language. Research has shown that by six months of age, most children recognize the basic sounds of their native language.

As the speech mechanism (jaw, lips, and tongue) and voice mature, an infant is able to make controlled sound. This begins in the first few months of life with "cooing," a quiet, pleasant, repetitive vocalization. By six months of age, an infant usually babbles or produces repetitive syllables such as "ba, ba, ba" or "da, da, da." Babbling soon turns into a type of nonsense speech (jargon) that often has the tone and cadence of human speech but does not contain real words. By the end of their first year, most children have mastered the ability to say a few simple words. Children are most likely unaware of the meaning of their first words, but soon learn the power of those words as others respond to them.

By eighteen months of age, most children can say eight to ten words. By age two, most are putting words together in crude sentences such as "more milk." During this period, children rapidly learn that words symbolize or represent objects, actions, and thoughts. At this age they also engage in representational or pretend play. At ages three, four, and five, a child's vocabulary rapidly increases, and he or she begins to master the rules of language.